Christians, do you feel that you loved ones who have died without Jesus....?

deserve to BURN IN HELL FOREVER or do you delude yourselves into thinking that somehow they are in heaven because the priest at the funeral says so in order to comfort the deceased person's loved ones with their lies? Christians, if you had a child, friend, parent, or relative die without sharing your beliefs do you praised your God on his decision to have them tortured throughout eternity?